Do you expect that I will help you? No! Don’t expect from me help. I don’t expect to harm someone.
If they hurt you, you are guilty, but if they help you, you have deserved it. Do you think that people are helping you? No they don’t. Do you think that people support you? No they don’t? The point is that we create our own filling and thoughts including that other people are helping us.
Are you thinking that you are helping others because you are in love with them? I have news for you. You have never been in love with anyone. You are in love only with the image that you have create for that person, supported with prejudices and hopes. Think for a moment: You have never been in love with anyone, you are in love with biased image for that person. Is it the way we fall in love with someone? Does your image changes? “How could you betray me when I believed you so much?”-you say to that person.
But do you really trust that person? You have never believe in anyone. Fuck it!
This conviction is only part of the brainwashing of society. You have never believe in anyone. You believe only in your judge for that person. Then what are you complaining about?
It’s fact that nobody wants to confess: “ILL ESTIMATE!”. It’s not very flattering to confess something like that is it? So it suits you more:”How could you disappoint me?”
So here we are: people do not want to really to grow up, people do not want really to change, people do not want to be really happy.
“Don’t try to make them happy, you will hurt yourself.”
In vain you are trying to learn the horse singing, you are wasting time , and the horse get nervous.
One man enters the Inn, sits, and sees one boy with apple on the nose. He is thinking “Whether to tell him or not. Doesn’t matter.” .
But he can’t get calm. After the third glass the mans says to the boy “Sorry you have apple on the nose ” the boy answers “What?”, the man again “You have apple on the nose”, the boys says”Sorry speak loudly i can’t hear you”, “You have apple on the nose” shouts the man. The boy answers “I have apple on the nose!”.
So it’s vain. Give up, say what you have to say and leave.
If they get something out of it,super, if not do not harm.